Resources for Couples

After the Affair – Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms Spring and Michael Spring

Divorce Busting – A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again by Michele Weiner-Davis

The Five Keys to Mindful Communication by Susan Gillis Chapman

Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix

The Hard Questions – 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do” by Susan Piver

Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

I Don’t Want to Talk About It – Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terrence Real

Intimacy After Infidelity – How to Rebuild and Affair-Proof Your Marriage by Steven Solomon and Lorie Teagno

Mating in Captivity – Unlocking Erotic Intelligence – Esther Perel

Not Just Friends – Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass

The New Rules of Marriage - What You Need to Know to Make Love Work by Terrence Real

Nonviolent Communication – A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg

Saying What’s Real – 7 Keys to Authentic Communication and Relationship Success by Susan Campbell

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M Gottman and Nan Silver

Tell Me No Lies: How to Stop Lying to Your Partner - and Yourself - in the 4 Stages of Marriage by Ellyn Bader and Peter T. Pearson with Judith D. Schwartz

Why Talking Is Not Enough – 8 Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage by Susan Page

Sex Resources

A Woman’s Touch – Sexuality Resource Center

Action Canada – for sexual health and rights

Hersh Centre for Sexual Wellness - Sex Therapists, Psychotherapists, and Marriage and Relationship Counsellors in Calgary, AB; Nelson, BC; and San Francisco, CA.

Kinsey Confidential – Sexual Health Information from the Kinsey Institute

Kidzworld Quiz – Quiz on sex education

Martha Kauppi Blog – Information on sex, sexuality, post-partum desire

Scarleteen – Inclusive, Comprehensive and Smart Sexuality Information and Help for Teens and 20s

sexetc. – By teens, for teens

Sexual Intelligence -  Sex-and Culture, Politics, the Media-and Sex, by Dr. Marty Klein

Sexual Pain in Women – Physiotherapy in Victoria, BC

Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., 2015

Intimacy and Desire: Awaken the Passion in your Relationship, by David Schnarch, Ph.D. 2011

Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it, by Marty Klein, Ph.D. 2012

What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex, by Stephanie Buehler, 2nd Edition, 2016